Not sure where the confusion lies. They aren’t mutually exclusive statements i.e. there are some nutters around, and some gems.
These women are lamenting the lack of ‘good’ men.And you use it as an example of these women’s ‘baggage levels’. And that one should steer clear etc.
I have a GF on the dating sites at the moment and she’s getting matches or likes or whatever, and then she’ll get no conversation
Both you and the OP (and numerous others) are able to make the observation that there is a lack of ‘good women’ (not getting into the ‘western women’ complaint). I’m guessing such observations are not indicative of baggage levels?
(And how many are ‘plastering’ and ‘whinging’ about it? Or is that just you interpretation of a sentence or two?)
Exactly.I’m not sure why a woman making this observation indicates baggage though? Or how it’s any different to numerous others making the same observation? Continue reading “I agree, stating it on a profile may be unhelpful”