“Loveness, love, dependence” a. Lorgus, about. Krasnikova

Two lie in bed

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, but the blanket is not enough for two, and it seems to everyone that he is freezing stronger than the other.

Everyone pulls the blanket over himself, and they are ashamed of it, but it’s scary to freeze. They have a way out – to hug, then there is enough blankets, and they will warm each other. But it is so difficult to do, because they do not trust each other. This is a metaphor for co -dependent relationships. Priest Andrei Lorgus and psychologist Olga Krasnikova expose fears and prejudices (for example, the identification of love for himself with selfishness, and sacrifice with self -abundance) that prevent us from understanding ourselves and others. In co -dependent relationships, two are not in touch with each other, but with the relationship as such: “It doesn’t matter who you are, if only you were with me”. The opposite of dependence is love, which is understood not only as a feeling, but as an act, an active interest in another.

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